How to find your identity? 这篇文章讲得挺好，http://bosong.link/identity 。

总结起来有几点：认真思考真正使你快乐的事情是什么？这个事情是即使你独处，并且不跟任何人说，做他也会让你感到快乐的事情。

它不是别人希望你做的事情，而是你发自内心的，希望做的事儿；找到你发自内心的想见的，与之相处的人。

GC: Start to notice what things genuinely make you feel good. And try to identify what things you feel you are doing just to “check the box”. What people are you genuinely drawn to and what people do you see because you “should”? What activities would you do and experiences would you have if nobody else knew or cared? In all things, looking at your “shoulds” versus your “wants” is a good way to work out if you are doing something that is truly meaningful to you, or if you are doing something because someone somewhere taught you that you “should.”

我的感悟：

找到自己喜欢做的事情。做它不是为了而发朋友圈获赞。做它是真正的喜欢。

彼得大叔喜欢打枪，甚至工作只是义务，是赚钱的手段。

我喜欢乐队，弹吉他，打鼓，这些即使自己独处，也会开心的活动。那我要让工作也只是义务吗？我不想。

想想ML，是否是自己喜欢做的事情。